Sex Amma: Does end of college mean end of relationship?

Q. Dear Amma, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year now and things have been great. But being in my final year, I’m planning to leave the city soon and I am not interested in a long distance relationship. Though there is still 6 month’s time before I go, I am faced with the dilemma of leaving him now. What should I do?

My over boiled idli, take a deep relaxing breath and calm yourself. Such matters of heart cannot be mulled over in haste!

Amma always advices young macchis, such as you, caution in matters of the heart. Lovely macchi, the solution to your problem can’t come from anywhere else but your own heart. You need to think with a calm mind about what you want in your life, and no matter the decision you make, you should always be prepared to face the consequences.

If it is in your heart to leave, then you do not have any obligation to stay. But if after reflection, you think that this is not the right time and you don’t want to spend time apart till the time you have to ultimately leave, then you have Amma’s blessing.

Ultimately, it needs to be your decision and you need to think it through. Don’t take a lot of pressure and just follow your heart.


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2 thoughts on “Sex Amma: Does end of college mean end of relationship?

  1. Siddhant

    I love how the article doesn’t really give any answer whatsoever and simply asks the person to figure her own shit out and gets away with it… :P

  2. Kartikeya Bhatotia

    Hey Siddhant, that’s the point of the column really! Amma gives you advice on relationships and leaves the machhis to figure out for themselves! One can’t understand the complexity of a situation in one sentence right? :)

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