“Dear Sex Amma, my boyfriend and I enjoy light role playing, him being the dominant one often. But I want to crank it up a notch, help me become the Dominatrix for a night?”
Ah, Submission and Domination, one of Amma’s favourite recipes to spice up any dosa, idli or vada! Along with the playfulness, it needs to be a perfect mix of control and seduction, my delightful rasam! In order to control your man, you need to be totally in character.
First off, in order to play the part, you need to look the part! Putting together a steaming attire to accentuate your best assets will give your confidence a boost as well as drive him crazy. Think of powerful and hard fabric like latex or leather. Next on the list is your vocabulary! You need to talk in a way that directly puts you in charge and lets him know that you are the boss tonight. You need to be assertive and as firm as a coconut. Amma suggests that you should put in some effort and write down what you want to say and how you want to say it beforehand, so the steam coming out of your sambhar never stops, and the flow is not disrupted.
Remember, confidence is the key. If you don’t like the way you look or talk, then you can never be comfortable playing the role. In Amma’s experience, all of us have a hidden dominant side, and all you need to do is unleash it along with your awesome powers of seduction. Pull his hair, bite his neck, unleash your inner lioness. The hickeys on his body should be your badges of honour!
As a final advice, keep him hanging at the edge, giving him very little each time, so that he craves for you even more!
Have fun my dirty macchis!
Sex Amma
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