Amma I and my gf have a decent sex life I guess. But nowadays I feel that I climax too soon. Way too soon. I can see an unhappy look on my partners face after we do it. How can I build stamina in bed for my gf…
Now now.. in my town this is what you would call a typical case of an early ripened banana falling to the ground and drying up before anyone can enjoy the fruits of it. We spend all our lives trying to come first in every race but forget that when it comes to in- bed issues, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. I had to consult with Dr. P. E. Periyar (P. E. is Physical Education here, you naughty little nettle!) but as always Amma has got a solution for you dearest macchi!
Premature ejaculation is the most common of all in- bed issues faced by men around the world today. That was just to put it out there. What causes premature ejaculation? There’s not one cause; it’s a combination of factors. Some believe anxiety is the culprit, repetitive learned behaviours, excessive or insufficient arousal, or muscular tension. They’re all associated, and addressing each of them is the key to curing premature ejaculation. For our purposes, let’s focus on curing premature ejaculation.
Wear a condom. It sounds too simple to be true, but it works for a lot of men. Condoms reduce stimulation for most men, which should prolong the time before ejaculation. Steer clear of condoms that are marketed as extra thin. You can always upgrade to a brand that allows more stimulation later. Some condoms are coated with a slight numbing gel on the inside. This can help you put off ejaculation for longer without causing numbness to your partner. Just make sure you know which side is where when you put it on.
Keep in mind that erectile problems come and go, and this issue is most likely not permanent. Additionally, most men gain more control over ejaculating as they get older. If you’re still young, try not to worry too much — you’ll probably grow out of premature ejaculation.
Slow down next time, dear macchi; don’t try to jump your gun while she is still warming up her gun powder.