Providing guidance to the students of DU since 2008 on matters of sex, dating and intimacy, Amma is back again this week with her dose of advice.
Question: Amma, I seem to have caught feelings for my best friend, however it appears to be largely platonic from their end, how do I proceed with it?
My Dearest Baccha,
Ah, Amma sees the tempest in your soul, not every dynamic fulfils the stereotypical bollywood formula of pyaar dosti hai, however worry not, for every twist has a way to untangle.
As of right now, Kanna, you stand at a crossroad of emotional resolve, any path that you choose to walk upon yields an uncertainty.
One path leads to divulging the knots of your heart, while the other has you hoping that your fervors will eventually find a way to move on.
However before you choose the route, steadfast over the inklings, like making the perfect Pongal, you just need a right balance of mind and heart.
My doting loli, in this web of perplexity, remember to prioritize your own mental and physical health over all the questions badgering you.
Here’s the sunny side up to the situation; with the wisdom and maturity I know my Kanna has, matter what happens, you’ll still have a friend at the end of it all.
In the weighing scale of platonic and romantic, it’s care and love that outweighs it all. Sending you all the pyaar and payasam, hoping to see you soon.
Love,
Amma.
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