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Sex Amma: He wants to do ‘it’ without using the protection!

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Q. Namastey Amma! I hope you answer to non DU student’s queries, as well.

My boyfriend and I want to do the deed for the first time but he insists on not using protection. Instead he only wants me to only rely on the pill, will it be enough?

A.  Aiyoo! Young macchi, your anxiety is natural. It reminds Amma of her youth, spent in the paddy fields many moons ago!

Now my spiced up idli, doing ‘it’ for the first time invites a lot of speculation and nervousness, but safety should always be your top priority. Using protection is the easiest way to ensure that.So even if your dosa doesn’t want to be moulded, tell him it’s not advisable! Though there are other ways such as pills and shots, but dear macchi you have to keep in mind the hormonal side effects it can cause, as well as, the financial feasibility of the choices you make.

Finally my little idli, it’s always good to be safe now, than be sorry later even if that means exchanging a few facts with your star crossed lover. Talk about the pros and cons of this before both of you decide to go all the way.

Have fun my naughty idlis, but always remember to be cautious!

Providing guidance to the students of DU since 2008 on matters of sex, dating and intimacy, Amma is back again this week with her dose of advice. Want to ask Amma a query? Mail it to [email protected].

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