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Sex Amma

Sex Amma: A Guide to Fingering

Hello Amma, in my last relationship I  attempted to finger my partner but accidentally ended up hurting her. I felt extremely bad about my action. Can you please let me know the basics of finger-sex so that I never mess up again. 

To,

My dearest Medu Vada,

Firstly very sorry for what happened in your previous relationship. Since now you have reached out to your Amma, get ready to taste the Sambhar of pleasure with your Idli. So the very first thing which you should keep in mind is that don’t be in a haste, always take it slow, just like the longer you cook the Sambhar the better flavor it has, the longer you swirl around, the more fun it is when you dive in.

Many little vadas often associate finger-sex with just replacing Banana with kara sev but that’s just not it. It’s an art and requires you to be patient and study the reactions of your idli carefully. The first and the foremost thing that has to be taken care of is to cut your nails and wash your hands properly before proceeding. Hygiene first, nobody loves an infection in their precious part. 

Don’t just move in, explore the surroundings, circle around and find their G-spot. Try stimulating it gently, rub around the walls, not hard, but soft and gentle. Increase your pace only gradually and pay attention to their body language. The sensitivity varies from Idli to Idli so it’s always good to begin slow.

Spend time stimulating the butter bean. You can dive your index in while using your thumb to play with it. My medu, enter only when the butter-milky magic invites you in, until then appreciate its complex construction with your fingers and lay special focus on the happy button, after all it’s there only to let the juices flow. Try to engage every part of her precious space with your finger play. Tease her and make it fun for both of you.

Now, the most important part, don’t forget to ask her consent before touching or even getting close to her. My dear Medu a mutual approval is of the utmost importance in any sexual activity. Now, go reiterate my tips and have a fun filled  Sambhar making.

With Love,

Sex Amma

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