I have always had a feminine side but today I felt a keen urge for my male friend. I have always been with girls but more recently my body wants both the sexes. Please help me choose as I’m confused.
Dear confused macchi,
It’s good that you know about what you like and what you desire. And since you know what you enjoy and prefer, there’s no need to be confused.
It’s important for you to know that there are multiple forms to express your sexuality and every person may not have the same conventional orientation. When it comes to sexuality, my little idli, there’s no black and white. It works in multiple shades of grey (in a meaning nowhere related to Christan Grey!) And it’s equally important for you to accept the way you are and be proud of it.
Being a bisexual is something perfectly normal, there’s nothing unnatural about it. There are different things that everyone likes, just like people have different choices of dosas and vadas! If you like the company of both men AND women, so be it. Don’t be intimidated by any sort of judgements. You don’t have to choose; if that’s how you are then you can have the best of both worlds!