It has been 3 years of our relationship, we make out decent number of times but we are just restricted to foreplay as I’m a sort of person to reserve my virginity for the right time. We are not sure of our togetherness but we both are sincerely in love with each other. At times it turns tough to restrict each other, especially him. Sometimes, I give him a hand job that serves the purpose but he asks me for oral sex, I tried a number of times while using flavored precautions as well but every time I failed. For me it’s the toughest of jobs which really spoils his mood and I end up thumbs down every time. Although he doesn’t force much but I feel sad on my part of not being a ‘sexually satisfying partner’. Please suggest something!

Aiyyooo!, this little idli here neither wants her guy to taste her water nor does she want to taste his. My distressed macchhi, there is nothing much to ponder upon in your case.

Listen up machhi, don’t do things that you don’t like to, that will neither please him nor will it give you satisfaction. You’ll have to make things clear to your appam about your dislike for oral sex, and who knows, he might not have a problem with this in the future.

Amma is pretty sure; your loving vada will try understanding you and won’t let you feel low. So, Amma advices you to sit down and talk to him, peacefully. You’ll eventually see things getting sorted.