Amma, I am a 20 year old girl and for the past 1 year, I have a “friend with benefits”. While we both enjoy each other’s company and the sex is good enough, I am already bored of doing the same thing over and over again. I recently asked him about trying some new stuff in bed, but he is too reluctant to venture into the unknown. Should I look for a new friend? Help!
Your Amma simply loves when young macchis want to go explore the deeper parts of the backwaters to catch themselves juicer fishes. But Amma would also like to warn against their sharper bones! I remember the time when bored of Unnikrishnan’s same old idli-making, Amma wanted to try the dosas of the gilded youth of the neighbourhood. Aiyyo! But I must keep such remembrances for when I am alone. *winks* Listen macchi. You and your koottukaran got together for the sex only. Now if your vada is telling you that his dosa is no longer doing the trick, then either tell him to buckle up his mundu and get to work or look for some new pasture. There are no two ways of looking at this, poovu.
But my dear, before you run out of your half-sari, remember that more the number of sexual partners, more the risk of contacting one of those STDs. Also, you already seem to be comfortable with your friend, something you might not be with other guys. And from Amma’s wide experience, no two chicken chettinads are the same. So while you may find someone who might be better than him, you might also run into someone who is far worse! So Amma advices you to talk to him, ask him to spice the rasam up, maybe introduce one more dosa or vada into the plate for some added fun. *winks* Macchi, there are a million ways to get creative in bed. Try them all out first. Maybe leave those bananas aside for a while and try some coconuts for a while, just to see if you actually prefer the later over the former. Amma always thought she was missing something until she went on a midnight stroll on the Kumarakom beach with her childhood friend, Lola Kutty! But if my macchi knows that she likes only the banana chips and talking and trying things with her friend are not helping, then write again, my love. Amma can set you up with one of her virile Kochi cousins instead!
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