The most anticipated fest at India’s premier institute took a nightmarish turn for the students of Lady Sri Ram College on 26th October. The day of the much awaited concert of the IIT Kanpur fest couldn’t have gone worse for the girls from LSR’s Drama and Dance societies. From the moment of their entrance they were constantly regaled with hoots, barks and cheap Hindi songs. The girls were largely outnumbered by boys and every time a girl stood up from her seat the crowd would make lewd comments at her and take pictures with their cell phones.
When the concert was to begin, the crowd allegedly pressed against the girls under the pretence of jostling for seats, touching and pushing them, and almost causing them to fall. One girl had her neck grabbed and her shirt pulled at while another suffered bruises due to the crowd’s attentions. Humiliated and outraged the girls approached the volunteers for help. Most of them swiftly came to their rescue and tried to drive the mobs away.
However a few of them were of little help, instead staying put to enjoy the spectacle. One volunteer, feigning deafness allegedly pressed unnecessarily close to a girl in order to hear her complaint. The volunteers did manage in the end to move the girls up to the front seats to get them away from the crowd. However most girls feel that this remedial action hardly made amends for what they had had to suffer through. Such behaviour was unexpected and shocking. Some students later came and apologized to them. However the girls received no formal apology from the authorities.
Neha, a third year English Hons student at LSR says:
“Such an incident should never have occurred at an institute where only the cream of the country gains admittance. The IITians say we shouldn’t judge them or generalize on the basis of this incident, but the fact remains that there were around 80 to 100 people in the mob surrounding us as against only twenty who tried to help us.”
Payal, a third year B.A. Programme student at LSR says:
“It was very disappointing to know such a thing could occur at such a premier institute. I was in shock. We want to take some action. We cannot remain quiet about what happened.”
Tanvi, a third year English Hons student at LSR says:
“As soon as we entered the hooting began. We were completely outnumbered. Although there was enough room the crowd deliberately jostled us and more guys kept joining in. We even lost our slippers amidst the pushing and we would have fallen if we hadn’t been holding on to each other.”
Roshni, a second year English Hons student at LSR says:
“This was a case of a serious lapse of management in all fields. Even the security was at fault. My room had been broken into while the concert was taking place and my laptop stolen.”
Neha continues:
“Today the only power those people had had was that of being male and they grossly misused it. Tomorrow the same people shall go on to become CEO’s and big executives and hold power in the real sense of the word. The prospect is frightening”





209 comments
ravi says:
Nov 25, 2008
Dear friends,
If there is anything we have extracted from this discussion,it is a mirror,a poignant mirror of viewpoints putative for one side,stupidity for another.
,the one thing that was obvious all of us Indians seem to lack is our deep rooted inability to rise above our institutions and behave like true individuals
it seems no side could resist a temptation in mudslinging,
If one girl has decided to deem an institute to be filled fully with hungry voyeurs,another guy(who is a brilliant,good friend) of the same insti has belittled their intellect by virtue of generalizing some stupidity in some quantum mechanics class.I dont even want to talk about people from my insti who have passed so crass,and immature comments randomly here and there.
and you know what is happening amidst all this,there is a silent but continuous process of stereotypification ,of which both sides are prone to be victims.I ,for one,shall always hesitate in revealing myself as an iitian to a DU girl I might like(I say this at the risk of sounding mushy) and the distance between IIT(especially K) and DU is only bound to grow.
For all my friends who HAVE been crazy enough to indulge in molestation(I confirm this because I do find people coming back to the hostel and talking about their ‘exploits’-such people ,however few,do exist at iitk) ,the shadow of their desperation is falling on me.Next Antaragni,I shall hesitate even to have a word or two with a pretty woman sitting beside me or deny myself a sweet opportunity at male chivalry.
For all my friends who have in earlier posts proclaimed themselves to be the “cream of the country”,their dependence on a much hackneyed and some what ridiculous epitaph will be extrapolated to me.I am very sad about it,I genuinely feel the tendency to seek cover under the name of a great institution is characteristic of people who have no identity of their own.
and finally ,whoever had the bright idea of posting such a delicious issue for discussion,deliciously overhyped also;maybe this hullabaloo was necessary,because this is really not a negligible issue(considering the fact that such a thing does not indeed happen in BITS Pilani,reason being people their being a bit more emancipated(crude ,as it may sound,ppl there are on an average,richer )and much more used to women around them)
“Today the only power those people had had was that of being male and they grossly misused it. Tomorrow the same people shall go on to become CEO’s and big executives and hold power in the real sense of the word. The prospect is frightening”–
first of all,there are so many,many other things ppl from here do other than becoming “CEOs”,secondly people who are destined for more meaningful contributions to the world(research,writing,social work.and for u,becoming CEOs of corporations) never have the time or the heart to engage in such disgusting acts like molestation,so stay assured,that the guys who are molesting u now will never appear again in some mega corporate sex scandal 10 years later,they will drown themselves in the sea of anonymity which is the sad destination of the iitian u never hear of.(come on,soon we will have 1 lakh iitians shipped out every year!!!!)
u see I might personally hate most of my batch here ,for whatever reasons,
but in some inevitable way,it hurts me that u shud use our dear ,beautiful and sacred institute library as a prop picture for this post,how heartless u are??
plz remember its not some great sting operation u have finished off with.
and i hope,inspite of all this,that u will be here for antaragni next year,and just be a lil bit more careful than usual.due apologies on behalf of iitk.
ravi.
shit happens says:
Nov 26, 2008
Well considering what everyone has said here ( which took me a good part of an hour ) …
the only thing I got to know is that Helvetica is a good font !
Any way, my points …
India is male dominated … so is the world, life is unfair, so is the world, live with it …
dont whine
So somebody touched your ass without your permission .. big deal .. get into a crowded bus once in a while .. you will get over that easily
Asking for an apology from the IIT authority wouldn’t change the fact that you got groped…
shit happens.. don’t cry over spilled milk ..
The same shit would and does happen all around the world .. if the gal is cute enuf .. people grope her .. nothing new in tat .. nothing you or I say can or will change anything .. no point in discussing it.
Men are disgusting … sorry, but we are, maybe lesbianism is the only viable option for you gals
aparadhi kaun ? says:
Nov 26, 2008
@ Disgusted LSRians
yeah its right cream would like to go abroad .
and I think u r in india which in ur words ” too dumb to get a scholarship “.
so remain disgusted as long as u want as it doesn’t make any diference in the overall discussion when dumb people got disgusted.
ravi says:
Nov 27, 2008
I should have paraphrased my arguments more carefully.I really can’t be apologetic on “behalf of iitk”,particularly when iitk includes “an IITian”.Perhaps it was a short outburst of passionate moral responsibility which prompted me to say that.You are right I am no one to apologize on behalf of iitk,I am an absolute nobody and I rather continue be so.
Boy,dont I know that this IS overhyped!maybe this is a nice exercise in article writing for the budding journos of our country,but the allegations are NOT ttally baseless.
But,look what the LSRians have succeeded at, enticing SOME of their dear overrated IIT counterparts into betraying their mediocrity-look at some of the comments made by “the cream of the country”-I am sure ,my dear self-respecting IITian,even u will feel a lil bit ashamed
@IITian,
friend,I am sorry if I sounded rude,perhaps u were part of the organizing team or something and so,this festival is a lot more closer to ur heart than it is to mine.
But,what can I do yaar,I actually met ppl boasting about touching some girl’s breast deliberately,caught snippets of conversation between ppl excited about pulling off some weird act of molestation and all that stuff.Maybe I am overgeneralizing,maybe I am not.
and secondly,the argument that this festival is too “well organized ” to have a grouse with is a flawed argument,because the successful organization of any festival is a COLLECTIVE emergent property of a system,whereas being a lecherous bastard is a very private and individual one,they cannot be correlated
(do i sound a tad too obscure?can’t help it)
as far as hating most of my batch is concerned lol,i am amused at how u took it srsly,i do hate a lot of ppl,but i hate what they represent ,not them,,i dont even hate u ,i dont even know who u are and like everyone ,i too have found the best of my friends here.
thanks for calling me a sant or sadhu, :),i wud love to be one.
last time i indulged in an act of self-righteousness,1 or 2 ppl alleged that I(an atheist,anarchist) belonged to the bhaktivedanta club. lol lol lol
btw,”an IITian”,if u wish,u cud drop in ur name and contact no id at ravic@iitk.ac.in….perhaps this is a nice debate we could enjoy over steaming hot coffee at the cc canteen sometime.i am really jobless till the 1st of december
noname says:
Sep 10, 2009
not an iitian nor an indian ..
this is not at all amusing. Grow up kiddo.. u might not be the cream of the country or future CEo’s but you are the youth ,, and thoughts of youth dont underdrown lik this .. @kirti : unless you gt a strong belief why reply.
LIALL says:
Sep 10, 2009
aaHAhHAHAHaaaa
Lull discussion.
ff says:
Dec 19, 2009
koi hai?
LLW says:
Nov 2, 2010
seriously….the only person who made sense was kanishk….
neways…i went to iit-k this year…n’ things r no different thn what they were…
letchy men….well they don’t have to physically molest u…they can very well do that with the way they look at u…
yess….i am a DU student….
LSR…is one of the finest colleges in the country n’ for the record it is the BEST humanities college in india…
we as DU ppl..don’t end up being corporate slaves lyk u guys do…
think a ZILLION times before u speak against DU….
n’ no..m nt frm LSR…bt v do stand up for a DU college whn the need arises….
m nt saying it is the students of ur “elite” institute who participate in these sorts of activities…bt atleast they can be curtailed…
neutral observer says:
Jul 15, 2011
laughing my ass off!